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Let’s talk about something that can make a huge difference on your wedding day — an unplugged ceremony. If you haven’t heard the term before, an unplugged ceremony means asking your guests to put their phones and cameras away during your vows. As a Kansas City wedding photographer, I can confidently say this small request can make a big impact!
Be Present in the Moment
Your wedding ceremony is one of the most meaningful moments of your life. It’s the moment you look into your partner’s eyes, surrounded by your loved ones, and say “I do.” When everyone’s holding a phone instead of a hand, it changes the energy in the room. Asking guests to unplug lets them fully experience the emotion — the laughter, the tears, the love — without distraction.
Leave the Photos to the Pros
You’ve spent time choosing your wedding photographer, and it’s our job to capture every moment beautifully. When guests lean into the aisle with phones or flash unexpectedly, it can block your photos or alter the lighting. An unplugged ceremony ensures your professional photographs are clean, timeless, and focused entirely on you.
Protect the Magic of the Moment
There’s something so special about hearing gasps, laughter, and applause instead of the click of a camera. Your guests will remember the warmth of the moment far more than a blurry photo on their phone. Plus, when you receive your gallery later, you’ll have gorgeous photographs to share with everyone — ones that tell the story perfectly.
Make It Simple for Guests
If you decide on an unplugged ceremony, include a note in your program or have your officiant kindly announce it before the ceremony begins. A simple reminder goes a long way in helping everyone be present and respectful.
Your wedding day only happens once — and it deserves your full attention. Choosing an unplugged ceremony in Kansas City allows you and your guests to be truly present, creating memories that last a lifetime
Amy and André’s Hotel Kansas City wedding was truly timeless. Their day felt elegant, joyful, and full of sweet, personal moments. From the stained glass windows at their church to the grand Tudor Ballroom, every part of their celebration felt meaningful and warm.
A Day Filled With Pure Joy
When I asked the couple how their wedding day felt, their answer was simple: “Happy!” They smiled from morning to night, and it showed in every moment. Their guests brought so much love and energy to the day. The grand entrance at their reception was their favorite part. They looked around the room and took it all in — every friend, every family member, every warm smile. It was a big, beautiful moment they will never forget.
Why They Loved The Hotel Kansas City
The Hotel Kansas City was the perfect fit for their classic style. They spent the morning in the king lofted suite, which gave them space to get ready and relax. The hotel team left a handwritten note and a bottle of sparkling rosé, which made the morning even sweeter.
They also loved the balcony that overlooks the Tudor Ballroom. The rich wood details and stained glass around the venue added so much charm. Every room felt special and full of character.
A First Look With a Meaningful Surprise
Amy surprised André during their first look with a custom painting by Steven Dragan. The artwork showed them standing in front of The Hotel Kansas City in their wedding attire — a moment that hadn’t even happened yet. It was thoughtful, beautiful, and incredibly unique.
Now, the painting hangs in their home as a reminder of one of the biggest days of their life.
When the Day Finally Felt “Real”
For Amy, it hit her the moment she walked down the aisle. She saw all their guests at once, and her eyes instantly filled with tears. For André, the moment felt real when they stepped out of the church as husband and wife. Their guests lined the exit and cheered as they walked out together.
Looking Back at Their Gallery
When they look at their photographs now, they feel all of the joy from their wedding day rush back. Doing a first look helped them take most of their portraits before the ceremony, which allowed them to enjoy more time with their guests afterward. It kept the day relaxed, intentional, and full of connection.
There’s something timeless about a Simpson House wedding in Kansas City—and Claire and Patrick’s day was the perfect example. From the elegant setting to their sweet, easy love, this late summer wedding was full of charm, laughter, and the kind of warmth that makes every photograph feel special.
A Classic Kansas City Setting
Simpson House is one of my favorite venues for so many reasons. It’s tucked right in the heart of Kansas City, yet it feels like a hidden gem. The historic stone exterior, lush gardens, and stately architecture make it a dream backdrop for portraits. On this warm August afternoon, the light filtered perfectly through the trees, wrapping everything in a golden glow.
Claire looked radiant in her sleek, modern gown—simple and elegant, with just the right touch of timeless beauty. Patrick was equally dashing in a classic black tux, and the two of them together? Absolute perfection.
An Effortless Kind of Love
What I loved most about this wedding wasn’t just how beautiful it was—it was how genuine it felt. Claire and Patrick have such an easy way with each other. Every laugh, every glance, every quiet moment between them spoke volumes about their connection.
They shared their vows surrounded by close family and friends, filling the space with love and joyful energy. The ceremony flowed seamlessly into a relaxed celebration, with heartfelt toasts, good music, and an atmosphere that felt like a perfect reflection of who they are—graceful, kind, and full of life.
Late Summer Details That Stole the Show
Every detail of this day felt intentionally simple, yet so refined. The white florals, soft greenery, and understated decor let the beauty of the venue shine. The pops of color from the seasonal blooms outside added just the right touch of warmth to the palette.
As the sun began to set, we snuck away for a few golden-hour portraits around the grounds. Those quiet minutes were some of my favorites—just Claire, Patrick, and the glow of the fading summer light.
A Day to Remember
Claire and Patrick’s Simpson House wedding was everything a summer celebration should be: elegant, heartfelt, and full of joy. It was an honor to document such a beautiful day for such an incredible couple.
If you’re dreaming of a wedding that blends historic charm with timeless romance, a Simpson House wedding in Kansas City might be perfect—and Claire and Patrick’s day was a perfect reminder of why.
There’s something magical about a spring wedding at The Venue in Leawood. Fresh blooms, soft light, and love in full bloom created the perfect backdrop for Ben and Sarah’s unforgettable celebration.
After months of planning, the day felt like a dream come true for the couple. Sarah shared that slipping into her wedding dress with her mom and sister was the moment it all felt real. She was officially the bride! Ben’s realization came later, just after the ceremony, when they were finally alone together, married at last, savoring a few quiet moments before the party.
The Venue offered everything they could have hoped for in a wedding space. Sarah loved the convenience of hosting the ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception all in one place. The complete food and bar service was a huge perk! Ben admired the modern yet formal style of the reception hall, which looked stunning when filled with their loved ones.
When asked what their favorite part of the day was, both Ben and Sarah agreed that, above all, being surrounded by friends and family who traveled from near and far was the best. Guests they hadn’t seen in years came together to celebrate, making the evening feel even more meaningful.
One of the most memorable details was their private first look and letter exchange. Choosing to keep their vows personal, they poured their hearts into handwritten letters. The tears, the smiles, and the moment they saw each other for the first time set the tone for an incredibly heartfelt day.
Later, their first dance to “When I See You, I See Home” by Tyler Hilton brought everything full circle. After dancing to it on their very first Valentine’s Day together, they knew it would make the perfect soundtrack for their forever.
This stunning spring wedding at The Venue in Leawood was everything Ben and Sarah hoped for and more. It was joyful, meaningful, and certainly a beautiful start to their next chapter together.
If you’re planning a wedding in Kansas City (or anywhere, really!), one of the best pieces of advice I can give you is this: book your photographer early. I know—it’s tempting to wait until you’ve locked in your venue or finalized every last detail. But here’s the thing: your photographer is one of the first vendors you’ll want to secure, and here’s why.
1. We Book Up FAST
Popular wedding dates—especially spring and fall Saturdays—go quickly. Many photographers (myself included!) start booking a year or more in advance. If you’ve been eyeing a particular style or have a photographer you love, don’t wait. Reach out as soon as you have a date in mind!
2. Your Photographer Helps Shape Your Timeline
A big perk of booking early? Your photographer can help with your wedding day timeline! We’ll guide you on how long we need for portraits, when golden hour falls, and how to plan for a smooth photo flow throughout your day. The earlier we chat, the more helpful we can be in the planning process.
3. Engagement Sessions Fill Up Too
Thinking about doing engagement photos? Another reason to book your photographer early is to give yourself time to plan and schedule your session. You’ll want to avoid last-minute stress, and give yourself time to order prints, create save-the-dates, or just enjoy the process without a rush.
4. It’s One Less Thing to Worry About
Let’s be real—wedding planning is a lot. The earlier you lock in a photographer you trust, the more peace of mind you’ll have. You’ll know your memories are in good hands and you can start dreaming up your perfect gallery.
Your photographs are one of the only things you’ll have forever after the day is over. So if there’s a photographer whose work makes your heart skip a beat—reach out early and snag that date!
If you’re getting married in Kansas City and looking for a fun, detail-loving photographer who’s all about capturing the real, joyful moments—I’d love to chat!
Let’s make some magic together. ✨
Have you ever stopped to think about how photographers use light to create emotion in your wedding photographs? At first glance, it might just seem like good timing. However, the truth is—light is one of the most important tools we use to tell your story.
Let’s start with golden hour. This dreamy, golden glow is a favorite for many couples, and for good reason! The soft, warm light during this time of day instantly adds romance and tenderness to your images. As a result, even a simple moment—like holding hands or laughing together—feels more intimate and magical.
Not every wedding day includes clear skies and sunset portraits. But don’t worry! Photographers are trained to use all kinds of lighting to spark emotion. We often work with off-camera flash, candlelight, or ambient reception lighting to create dramatic, moody vibes. These techniques are perfect for emotional first dances, heartfelt toasts, or quiet moments between the chaos.
In addition, backlighting can add a completely different mood. When used intentionally, it creates glowing silhouettes that highlight movement and emotion in a breathtaking way. Think of a twirl on the dance floor or a kiss under twinkle lights. Those scenes are made even more powerful with the right backlight.
Let’s not forget about indoor spaces. Even something as simple as a sunbeam through a window can create a soft, emotional mood. Similarly, uplighting at your reception or string lights above your sweetheart table can completely shift the feel of your images—bringing warmth, celebration, or even serenity.
Ultimately, once you understand how photographers use light to create emotion, you’ll start to notice just how often it’s working behind the scenes. Light shapes the tone of each image and helps your photos feel just as real and moving as the day itself.
So, the next time you scroll through a gallery and feel something tug at your heart—that’s the power of light. And that’s exactly why we love using it to help tell your love story.re, it’s doing a lot of heavy lifting behind the scenes—just like your photographer.
Capturing the scenery at a destination wedding is more than just documenting the couple’s love; it’s about preserving the magic of the place that surrounds them. The unique landscape and atmosphere of your destination can add a layer of beauty to your wedding photographs, making them even more memorable. Here are some tips for making the most of the surroundings at your destination wedding.
Plan Ahead for the Perfect Shots
First, scouting the location before the big day is key. By visiting the venue in advance, you can identify the best spots for stunning backdrops. Look for areas with natural beauty, such as ocean views, mountain ranges, or lush gardens. Knowing where the light falls during different times of day will help you decide when and where to take those perfect shots.
Use the Scenery to Tell a Story
Next, think about how the surroundings can enhance your wedding story. For a beach wedding, let the waves and sandy shores add a sense of romance and freedom to the scene. If you’re in a historic city, incorporate the architecture to give your photographs a timeless feel. Use the natural elements of your setting to create a visual narrative that reflects the mood of your celebration.
Embrace Candid Moments in Nature
Candid moments often bring out the best in wedding photographs. Encourage the couple to take a stroll through the vineyards, dance under the sunset, or share a quiet moment by a waterfall. These unplanned interactions with the landscape create genuine, heartfelt images that capture the essence of their connection and the beauty of the destination.
Make the Most of Weather and Lighting
Weather can play a crucial role in your destination wedding photographs. Embrace sunny skies for bright and cheerful images, or use cloudy days for a soft, romantic glow. Golden hour—the time just after sunrise or before sunset—is ideal for warm, natural lighting that flatters everyone.
Let the Details Shine
Finally, don’t forget to capture the little details that make the day special. Highlight candid moments, cultural elements, or unique memories. These details will not only add depth to your photographs but also preserve the charm of the wedding itself.
By focusing on these elements, you can beautifully blend the couple’s love story with the stunning moments of their destination wedding.
Madisen and Jordan got married at The Bowery this past year, and it was such a great day! They celebrated with their closest friends and family all night long. The girls wore the prettiest light blue dresses that matched perfectly with her white and green color palette. Madisen’s dress was from True Society and wow, it she was STUNNING. The guys wore light gray suits, while Jordan wore a navy one. Their color palette photographed so well!
They actually decided to choose a new last name for them both to change to after their wedding. (How cool is that!?) They picked “Flourish” to represent their growth as a couple, and it fit them so well. It was a beautiful day for an outdoor ceremony at the Bowery. One of my favorite parts of the wedding day was during the reception! All the women in Madisen’s life circled around her on the dance floor to sing and dance to Mamma Mia/Abba and it was SO FUN!
It was really one of the best days! Thank you Madisen and Jordan for letting me be a part of it!
Noted Vendor:
Makeup | Naturally You Artistry
Bailey and Chris had a beautiful spring Wedding at Powell Gardens! Their wedding day was emotional and FULL of love. They had their closest friends and family at their side, ready to celebrate. You could tell that their families had been waiting for this day for them.
My favorite details of the day were all of the color that they had! Colorful florals and mixmatched bridesmaids are going to be a huge trend for the rest of 2022 and 2023 weddings.
Powell Gardens is has a modern church with insane windows and tall ceilings that feel never ending. It’s truly a magical place to just stand and soak in all the thoughtful design put into the venue.
Thank you so much Bailey and Chris for letting me celebrate this gorgeous day with you!
Vendors
Planner/Coordinator | Morgan with Hooch and Honey
Florals | Elizabeth McKenzie Florals
Dress | The One Bridal
Hair + Makeup | Hello Lovely
Cake | Blue Thistle Cakery
Catering | Plaza Catering
DJ | Beau Vaughn
